steps to a better me-dealing with my emotions and compulsive eating…i am worth all the effort and change….and most of all a life…taking back what was once taken being in charge of my life i am worth all of it…

how do i deal with my compulsive emotional eating

i journal the very moment i start feeling overwhelmed….i really don’t know what has

trigged this feeling yet so i need to get to the bottom of it…all i know that food in the

past has made me feel at ease and fills that void.

I write how i am feeling at that moment because it helps me identify why i am feeling

the way i am feeling

at the moment i am writing without stoping i just want to feel relief and only writing in

down helps me to clear my mind and ease the pain that is causing me to wanna stuff

myself.  all i know that i want what ever emotion that is causing this pain to stop.

after writing how i feel and why then helps me understand me, what trigged this

emotion and at the end helps me to realize that at that moment that i had control of

the situation….
And that is the begining of CHANGING OLD HABITS
i notice that no longer my emotions are going to be stonger than my desire to

CHANGE
so what i want to say that writing has become my best friend in dealing with my

emotions….feelings and void…..and that i finally can say i can control this feeling not

the feeling control me….because i am worth fighting  for……

15 Comments so far

  1. harleygirl @ May 16th, 2009

    Write away Yani!!! It’s good to get it out! BTW…love the progress pics :)

  2. texasgidget @ May 16th, 2009

    Good for you! It can often be hard for us to realize the things that are holding us back and then to take actions to do something about it! I am trying to be around a little more often as I’ve been a little absent lately…good for you for writing things down and getting them out. I’ll have to email you…it took me years to realize what I hadn’t let go of yet…Glad you are doing this for YOU!

  3. grapeape @ May 16th, 2009

    Journaling is very therapeutic. Good for you!

  4. Maria @ May 16th, 2009

    Writing things down is a great way of getting to the bottom of your emotions and figuring out those cravings. I wish you all the best with this, you are doing so well and you will overcome your emotional eating. It is something that so many of us deal with and it is so difficult to understand…if only there was a magic cure!! :( But you are definitely taking the right steps to figuring out your triggers. good luck :)

  5. khmerbeauty @ May 16th, 2009

    Keep writing and I will keep reading! You are amazing!

  6. coolbird30 @ May 16th, 2009

    You’re better than I on that front! I can’t journal. I get bored, or I lie to myself. It’s pitiful. I write to my tribe. Because I can write to them every single day, or at least text them, or talk to them on the phone. You write your blogs, Yani, and I’ll be here to read them and support them!! You are so strong and fabulous!!

  7. coolauntBBW @ May 16th, 2009

    You’ve already figured out the most important part: You ARE worth it. Good luck with identifiying your triggers, and keep writing!

  8. somemansdream @ May 16th, 2009

    Oh Yani,
    You are definitely worth it!
    I hope this helps you. I used to binge and in a big way. I have noticed that now–with all the writing I do in here at buddyslim…I dont have near the problem. So, there has to be something to that–writing it out.
    You can do this girl–love ya

  9. renee68 @ May 17th, 2009

    You are doing great Yani! And you are right-YOU ARE WORTH IT! You are making awesome progress!!!

    Have a great week! :)

  10. kamaperry @ May 17th, 2009

    You are sooo worth it. We all are. You keep on writing girl, and I will too. Love you!

  11. Venus103 @ May 19th, 2009

    Yes, you are worth it! We all are, thanks for the reminder about journaling.

  12. sabrinaBB @ May 19th, 2009

    Happy you found something thats helping you to take control over your emotions and not let the emotions take control of you :)
    Keep on writing hun :D ((HUGS))

  13. pickles @ May 19th, 2009

    you are worth it,and don’t let anybody tell you different,and you will make it,thanks for the article.

  14. missinglink1946 @ May 26th, 2009

    Mindy, Your progress pictures says it all ..your an inspiration to us all.. The writing sounds logical to me.. I think I might try it also..You hang in there your doin great..

  15. momtothegirls @ June 11th, 2009

    Your progress pics are kicken! WOW! I find that writing is probably one of the most theraputic tools out there… Keep writing and I’ll keep reading!

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